Someone who feels unloved can still find love in its purest form, but he will have to work through the layers of resistance that block the feeling of pure love. Your present emotions reflect the present state of your nervous system with all its past imprints.
Whenever you have an experience, these imprints enter into your response, which means that most of your reactions are echoes from the past. You do not really live in the present. However, at least you are reacting in the present, and that is where the search for your true self begins..
For a relationship to compel it needs to be "healthy." Making sure you are entering a healthy relationship It is one way to ensure that you and your partner won't end up being in the 65% breakup group. The reality is that you need to be able to define what a healthy relationship really is. So...what makes a relationship healthy?
1. Know yourself
2. Both partners need to know and love themselves first
3. before they can begin to know and love each other.
4. Each one should spend time pursuing personal goals as well as partnership ones.
5. Bring positive things to the relationship
6. You should bring compassion, understanding, and a healthy dose of reality.
7. What neither one of you should bring is too much excess baggage from previous bad relationships.
8. Let the past stay in the past. Healthy body, Healthy mind
9. If you're finding that you are getting involved with an addict, stop immediately.
10. Addiction is not healthy. You aren't going to change an addict. Addiction will only have an adverse impact any relationship.
11. Avoid abuse A healthy partnership is one where each person is treated with DRK, dignity, respect, and kindness.
12. A partner who really listens No joke, the most successful couples communicate.
13. They really listen and care what each one has to say.
14. This includes all aspects of your relationship together. Be frank and open.
15. Honesty and trust Relationships are built on trust.
16. Lies destroy the foundation of a partnership.
17. Appreciate and support Appreciate your partner's unique abilities and likes even if they are different from your own.
18. Emotionally support any dreams and goals he may have.
19. Have fun together Enjoy being together.
20. Share the best of your lives. Have common goals and commitment.
21. Remember - An unhealthy relationship is one where you feel heightened stress, fear, sadness, and dread.
22. A healthy relationship is one where you feel comfortable, safe, happy, and fulfilled.
Our brains didn’t recognize those influential words bad and no. Bad teaches you that convinced thoughts are shameful; no teaches you to resist your own impulses. To be aware of an emotion fully and completely, to occurrence it and then discharge it, is to be in the present, the only moment that never ages. The truth if that fear and anger subsist outside us. They are not yours or mine, unless we be a focus for them. Compassion comes from the root words “to bear with,” and for that basis many people in fact fear it. Compassion is one of the most honored and devout feelings because it marches up to the front lines of anguish and says, “Take me.” In this giving of oneself there is a direct occurrence of pain, yet in the giving there is love.
Thus compassion has the influence to dissolve pain by not avoiding it, but by trusting that love affords the greatest protection. By ascertaining that there is a veracity – love – stronger than any pain, you mount your strongest defense and Love yourselves first before begin to know and love others.
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